Zifukwa Zowonjezereka Zomwe Mungapewe Kuyenda

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Mapindu a kuyenda amayenda bwino kuposa thanzi lanu. Ndi njira yabwino yothetsera nkhawa, kulimbitsa mtima wanu , ndikuchita nawo ena kunja. Ndi chinthu chimene aliyense angathe kuchita ndi kupitiriza kuchita kwa moyo wake wonse.

Kotero, nchifukwa ninji nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta nthawi zina kuchoka pa mpando, kuyika pa nsapato, ndikuyenda? Nthawi zambiri timadzikhulupirira tokha kuti tili ndi zifukwa zathu koma, mobwerezabwereza, tikungopereka zifukwa.

Ino ndi nthawi yopitilira zifukwa ndi kubwerera kumbuyo kupita ku thanzi labwino. Pachifukwa ichi, apa pali zifukwa zisanu ndi zitatu zowonjezera kuti musapezeke kuyenda ndi zomwe mungachite kuti muzigonjetsa:

1 - "Ndimatanganidwa kwambiri kuyenda."

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Sitikutsutsa mfundo yakuti nyumba ya munthu ndi moyo wake zimakhala zovuta. Koma, nthawi zambiri, timagwiritsa ntchito mawu oti "otanganidwa kwambiri" kuti atipatse "kunja" pa masewera olimbitsa thupi m'malo mojambula mphindi 30 mpaka 40 panthawi yathu.

Pali zinthu zambiri zomwe mungachite kuti muthe kugonjetsa izi:

2 - "Ndatopa kwambiri kuti ndisayende."

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Chinthu chodabwitsa pazifukwa izi ndikuti kuyenda kumakhala kosiyana kwambiri ndikutopa. Zimakupatsani mphamvu zambiri kuposa kugwa pa sofa kapena kutsegula kutsegula mowa.

Kuti mudziwe nokha, yambani kutenga masitepe angapo a ana:

3 - "Kuzizira kwambiri kuyenda."

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Ndi kulakwitsa kukhulupirira kuti muyenera kuika kulemera kwa dzinja. Ngati mukukonzekera nyengoyi, palibe chifukwa chomwe mukuyenera kuyendetsera m'nyengo yozizira kuposa momwe mungachitire masika.

Pano pali nsonga zingapo zomwe zingathandize:

4 - "Kutentha kwambiri kuyenda."

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Tiyeni tione bwino: nyengo yozizira ikhoza kukhala ndi ngozi zowopsa kwa anthu oyendayenda, kuphatikizapo kutaya madzi m'thupi ndi kutaya kutentha. Koma, izi sizikutanthauza kuti muyenera kudzidalira nokha pa nthawi ya chilimwe.

M'malo mwake, tenga zosavuta zosavuta:

5 - "Ndakalamba kwambiri kuti ndisayende."

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Anthu amene amati ndi okalamba kwambiri kuti asayambe nthawi zambiri amakhala ofanana ndi omwe sagwira ntchito zolimbitsa thupi ngakhale pang'ono. Ndipo, vuto ndi ichi ndicho kuyenda ndi njira imodzi yabwino yophunzitsira okalamba. Zimathandiza kuti thupi likhale ndi thanzi labwino, kuyenda, komanso kutulutsa minofu ndipo nthawi zambiri anthu achikulire amakhala ndi masewera olimbitsa thupi.

Zedi, mukhoza kukhala ndi zofooka, koma kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi kungathandize munthu aliyense mosasamala kanthu za msinkhu kapena matenda. Kuti mubwererenso pa njira yathanzi:

6 - "Kuyenda sikulibwino kwa thupi langa."

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Ngakhale ziri zoona kuti vuto lachiuno, bondo, kapena phazi likhoza kutha pamene likuyenda, likhoza kulumikizana kwambiri ndi nsapato zanu kuposa china chirichonse. Ngakhale kuti mukufunikira kugwira ntchito pa zolephera zanu, kusagwira ntchito sikungakuthandizeni kukhala ndi thanzi labwino kapena kupangitsani mavuto anu ogwirizana. Kuyenda kungathe.

Nazi zinthu zingapo zomwe zingathandize:

7 - "Sindimakonda kuyenda ndekha."

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Pa zifukwa zonsezi, izi zingakhale zomveka. Pambuyo pazinthu zodetsa nkhaŵa zokhudzana ndi chitetezo, kuyenda nokha nthawi zonse sikungakhale kosangalatsa.

Ndizinenedwa kuti, pali zinthu zomwe mungachite kuti muyende kuyenda bwino komanso zosangalatsa:

8 - "Kuyenda kumasangalatsa."

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Chabwino, kuyenda kotero sikungakhale kokondweretsa ngati kuyendetsa pansi kapena kubwereza pansi, koma pali zinthu zomwe mungachite kuti mukhale ndi chidziwitso.

Yambani poyerekeza momwe mukuyendera kuyenda. Ngati mukufunikira kupeza zambiri kuposa kuyenda kwatsopano komanso malo okongola, ganizirani izi:

Pamapeto pake, kuyenda sikuyenera kukhala tanthauzo. Mukakhala ndi nthawi yopenyera phindu la kuyenda-ku thanzi lanu ndi mtendere wa m'maganizo-mudzapeza zifukwa zochepa zoti musapange gawo lanu nthawi zonse.