Zosowa ziwiri zomwe zikusoweka paziganizo zapachaka? Kukonzekera-ndi kosangalatsa
Mafotokozedwe osapita m'mbali ambiri a ife timapanga ku "maholide" mwina amatanthauza chinachake chosiyana kwa aliyense wa ife. Lamuloli lakhala lothandiza kwambiri kumlengalenga kuchokera ku Thanksgiving mpaka Chaka Chatsopano, ndipo miyambo iliyonse, miyambo, zikondwerero, ndi kusonkhana kumakhala malo omwewo.
Chinthu chimodzi chomwe timakonda kukhala nacho ndi chakuti nthawi ino ya chaka ndi yapadera komanso yosiyana, m'njira zonse zolimbikitsa ndi kuyesera, zabwino ndi zoipa.
Zovuta zapanyumba zimabwera m'mitundu yambiri, kuchokera ku maubwenzi ovuta, kuyenda zovuta, mabanki a mabanki akudutsa mopitirira malire awo. Pakhoza kukhala kusungulumwa ndi chisoni, kapena chikondi chochuluka ndi mgwirizano, ndipo mwinanso kuphatikiza zonsezi.
Koma vuto limodzi la maholide limakhala likuwonetsera mu kudzipereka kwachiwiri kukonzekera pomwepo. Kulemera kwa msinkhu kumakhala perennially pakati pa zokhudzana kwambiri ndi Chaka Chatsopano.
Lingaliro lofunikira, ndiye, kuti maholide amatitsogolera ife mu mayesero amtundu uliwonse, ndipo ife nthawi zambiri timapambana. Ndondomeko zathu ndipo, mwinamwake, kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi nthawi zambiri zimasokonezeka. Koma makamaka, vutoli ndilo chakudya. Chakudya chimakhala pamsana pa phwando lililonse, phwando, komanso, phwando la banja. Kulipira phindu kumakhala koopsa. Momwemonso, ndikumva chisoni tsiku lotsatira.
Simudzapeza uphungu wambiri pazomwezi ngati mutachita kafukufuku.
Pali malangizo abwino apa. Cholinga changa apa, sichoncho ponena za kuthetsa yankho kusiyana ndi kuthetsa vutoli polichepetsa.
Ndondomeko yanga yophweka ili ndi zigawo zitatu.
1) Kumbukirani Chimene Matenda Ali Pa
Chimodzi mwa zifukwa zokhudzidwa ndi tchuthi ndi kutuluka kwa nthawi yozizira ndizo khalidwe labwino la thanzi.
Ife tadzinena mwa njira inayake mu lingaliro lakuti anthu abwino ali ndi matupi abwino ndi oonda thupi, ndipo zopotoka pa njirayi ndi mtundu wina wa khalidwe losayenerera kapena khalidwe lopanda pake.
Uwu ndi katundu wonyenga wopanda pake! Zaumoyo sizomwe zimayendera, ndipo sichoncho cholinga. Cholinga chimakhala bwino-moyo wabwino. Zinthu zina kukhala zofanana, anthu wathanzi amakhala osangalatsa. Kumbukirani kuti phindu lenileni la thanzi lagona mukutumikila kwa zosangalatsa zomwe mungakhale nazo. Mwadzidzidzi, sikuyenera kumveka kusangalala chifukwa chodandaula za zakudya, thanzi, kapena kulemera pa maholide.
2) Kumbukirani Zomwe Maholide Aliri
Kwa ambiri a ife, maholide amakhalanso osangalatsa. Zinthu sizimagwira ntchito nthawi zonse, koma chiyembekezo chimakhala chosangalatsa: nthawi zabwino, chakudya chabwino, ndi anthu omwe ali ofunika kwambiri kwa ife. Maholide amafunika kukhala nthawi yapadera, nthawi zambiri pamakhala zofuna zina. Ndizonyansa bwanji kudandaula njira yathu kudutsa mumsewu wa nyengoyi.
Vuto lathu silili maholide; Panthawi ya maholide, ndikuganiza kuti, nthawi zonse timapatsa nthawi yabwino. Vuto lathu limakhala lachitatu kapena masiku ena a chaka, pamene ambirife timataya mwayi umene tili nawo kuti tikhale ndi thanzi labwino kuti tisangalale. Malangizo anga onena za momwe mungapewe kumwa mopitirira muyeso pa maholide ndi kunyalanyaza maholide ndi kuganizira za chaka chonse.
Ngati nthawi zambiri mumadya bwino komanso kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi, kuchoka pa maholide sikungasokoneze. Kuphatikiza apo, ngati mumadya bwino chaka chonse, mumakonda kudya zakudya zowonjezereka, ndipo zilakolako zanu zidzakhala zokha.
3) Sankhani Mogwira Mtima
Tonse timadziwa momwe mitundu ikuyambira: yokonzeka, yikani, pitani . Zosankha za Chaka chatsopano, mwatsoka, m'malo mwake mukhale "kupita, kapena osakhala ndi okonzeka" zosiyanasiyana. Zotsatira zake ndizosatheka.
Choncho musalole kuti kulakwa kukugwiritseni ntchito mwanjira ina. Sankhani kukonzekera ndi kusanthanso musanathenso.
- Kodi mungakonde kusintha chiyani, bwanji, motani, ndi liti?
- Ndani angakuthandizeni?
- Ndani angakulepheretseni?
- Kodi muyenera kutani patali, ndipo mungachipeze bwanji musanayambe?
- Ndi chiyani chomwe chidzakukhazikitseni kuti chaka chamawa, maholide akhale osangalala komanso osasokonezeka?
Mayankho a awa akhoza kuitana kufufuza zambiri, koma monga momwe tawonera pachiyambi, mfundo zoterezo zimapezeka mosavuta. Musanayambe kupanga ndondomeko, yesetsani. Maholide amafunika kukhala apadera. Thanzi ndizomwe zikuchitika chaka chonse. Ndipo ndi zomwe ali nazo zomwe zimapangitsa onse kukhala okhudzidwa: Onsewa ayenera kuwonjezera chimwemwe ndi zosangalatsa m'moyo wanu.
Ndili ndi malingaliro, ndikukhumba iwe umoyo ndi chimwemwe mu Chaka Chatsopano.